Handbags & Men

I have to be honest I cant understand why men have to carry their girlfriends, wives or whatever's handbags.. I mean its not appealing when a man carries a woman's handbag.. We women brag about our handbags and the ones we saw at the store and how we want to get another bag to add to the collection.. But wait ladies before you buy that bag you better check if it suits your man... C'mon ladies..this is disgraceful.. I mean I understand if you just sprained your arm, broken a bone, need to pee or need to do something.. But asking you man to hold your handbags?? If thats the case don't bring a handbag.. It saves the shame..

Guys you have to realise that its not macho to carry a ladies bag.. 2, when your partner is with her friends, mum, dad, family, etc do you see her handbag flung around someone else's shoulder? Guess not.. She can hold it herself you know..

I never understood why men go through it and women can ask their man too.. Maybe its just me..

Shameful.. Men have your ball shrunk on her account..? If you haven't got any, you won't be getting any action by carrying her handbag..

Risk

Recently I have spoke to many people from different walks of life.. Most of our conversation would rather start or end with the question about taking risks.

Relationships, investments, family, etc.. Now, allow me to explain I am a person who will take risks in relationships. Reason i say so is that I have realised I have been in 2 very serious relationships before my current relationship now. One actually leading to marriage but you see they didn't work out as i had planned rather than regretting what I had did and why I was so stupid, I learned a very valuable lesson. The lesson was it made me stronger person and realised what I know not to do in my next relationship. Everyone is different in their own ways, to compare is wrong but as humans we usually do. We can't expect others to think like us either.
The question tends to be should I take that risk? Is it worth it? Will I get hurt? What will I benefit? Well all I can say is you don't know but if you don't take that risk you will never know the answer...

Afraid of getting hurt? We all are.. But that hurt will make you stronger in future and you may not realise now but later in life. I personally have been through I a lot in my life but I have taken a few risk which I am proud of and a few which I am not. The fact of the matter is I did take risks and I know i will probably will keep taking risks..

Try not to be negative, i know its hard but being negative will not change anything. Try being a little positive and maybe you can see that its good. Express how you feel and don't bottle it up as it will want to come out and when it does it may not be the same reaction you have planned.

Well i looked up what Risk meant in the dictionary.. find the description below...

Risk
– noun

1.	exposure to the chance of injury or loss; a hazard or dangerous chance: It's not worth the risk.

2.

Insurance. a. the hazard or chance of loss. b. the degree of probability of such loss. c. the amount that the insurance company may lose. d. a person or thing with reference to the hazard involved in insuring him, her, or it. e. the type of loss, as life, fire, marine disaster, or earthquake, against which an insurance policy is drawn.

– Verb (used with object)

3.	to expose to the chance of injury or loss; hazard: to risk one's life.

4.	to venture upon; take or run the chance of: to risk a fall in climbing; to risk a war.

—Idioms

5.	at risk, a. in a dangerous situation or status; in jeopardy: families at risk in the area of the weakened dam. b. under financial or legal obligation; held responsible: Are individual investors at risk for the debt part of the real estate venture?

6.	take or run a risk, to expose oneself to the chance of injury or loss; put oneself in danger; hazard; venture.